Mysterious Stranger wrote:
I can sum all this up with the "Golden Rule", do unto others as you would have them do unto you. That and Wil Wheaton's Law, don't be a dick.
This.
joemichaels70 wrote:
Suntzu wrote:
Definitely good rules for the community. I can think of 2 - 3 more that should be added from personal experience.
Such as .... ?
my humble additions ...
11. " When ever possible provide confirmation and C.Y.A. when trading or sending items to help out a fellow community member "
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Postal Tracking #'s. Pictures of receipts. Heck even detailed pictures of what you sent in the box with bubble wrap before sealing the package and mailing. Anything and everything that will support a clear understanding of the transaction was established between the 2 parties before items were shipped and details actual shipping. I've been
extremely fortunate in that i can count the number of what i would call "bad" transactions i've had online in 15 years on one hand. Of the 3 that i've had each was with a Joe community member who had a "good" reputation at the time and was an active known community member. In each case each feigned ignorance or outright lied until irrefutable proof was provided countering their fabrications. And in each case, early on at least, the "reputation" of these community members shielded them from the fury of the community until that proof was provided and to a degree even afterwards until their nature eventually became evident over the course of time. None are around this site anymore for various reasons. Karma's real.
Point: ALWAYS have proof because we all want to give guys we know the benefit of the doubt. That "guy "could be a sleazeball you're dealing with.
12. " Avoid having a middle man in your transactions" -
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An example: "Joe" and "Jane" want to buy figures from "Kevin's" lot of GI Joes. Joe and Jane are friends and agree that Joe will receive the lot of figures from Kevin and , upon arrival of the figure lot, Joe will ship Jane's portion of the figures to Jane's home.
...you already see where this BS is going . After Kevin ships the agreed upon figures to Joe inevitably Jane is in some way shorted when her package is received from her "friend". Joe and Jane are internet buddies so naturally the odd man out is Kevin despite his sending out all of the agreed upon figures.
Avoid this scenario like the plague at whatever cost.
Potential problems: 1. Joe steals Janes items and claims they weren't inside the original package. 2. Joe swaps Janes items with lesser quality versions from his collection before shipping them to her (this is avoided by following rule #11) . 3. Joe cherry picks the best from the lot and ships the worst to Jane.
Deal with people individually so they know that you're a person of your word, you keep records and , God forbid , a mistake was made by either party that both will make an effort to fix it immediately
The third is a variation of number 4 on the original list so i'll just say " Keep Your Word". If you say your going to do something (like pick up specific figures locally for someone) don't backtrack and take the figures for yourself. If that is something you feel like you may do make it known in advance that you may decide to keep things for yourself on a whim. It's s****y but at least it's honest. I respect that far more than bold faced lie.
i would also say #6 on the original list is critical. No matter who he is if a guy is a thief make it known.