ZombieGuide wrote:
kingofpain26 wrote:
this is gonna sound wierd....
but,. its the same reason why i posted the Black History thread,.. and got almost the same negative reaction.
...if you have to ask the question, then you wont understand the answer.
similar to:
...why do we continue to rage against Hasbro about Dukes arms, when they havent changed them yet?
...why do we continue to ask why star wars figures have t crotches, when its possible to fully articualte them?
or a personal question:
why do people keep trying to convince me to not do this at all, or tell me how wrong it is,.. instead of offering positive suggestions on how to do it beter.. or offering to help do it?
so far, this thread has gone almost 3 pages, and only one person has offered to help (which is my original question in the first place)
The two threads I started were based on this thread. In those threads I took a very, very neatral approach and they are not at all personal. They asked very politely, simply and opened ended 'What do they do right" and "What needs improvement". Both threads are getting plenty of responses. Those are actual statements made with little negativity that I believe are getting some of the answers your looking for.
Rather than using polls, ask a simple question then sit back and let everyone answer. There is no right or wrong, its only perspectives and they all should be taken seriously. I don't think many are responding here because of the reactions.
see, heres the funny part. this is EXACTLY what I did last year witht he two threads i posted. and when I displayed the results.. THATS when everyone disagres, mainly because they disliked the results, not because the results are flawed.
and example: if I go by the results youve posted so far, apparently people on this board thinks the club needs improvement on a lot of criteria. but If i said joecustoms doesnt like the club, I am wrong. and even when guaging the answers, they stretch from the odd quibble, to the outright hatred of everything. same deal with the positive, people are quick to say the hated the food at the last dinner, buy neglect to post how much fun they had reguardless...however, Other's did. and it was reflected in the other poll results.
this is what I mean by persoal attacks. why is it when YOU do the EXACT same thing I did,.. no drama.. but when I do it... people ask me why. Has anyone asked you why you bothered to post your threads?
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So here is some positive feedback. Make sure you know what you're saying is accurate before you say it. Because I do not want someone that misunderstands my input releasing a poll that he claims reflects my opinion.
kingofpain26 wrote:
why the hostility? you repremanded people in another thread about personal attacks, yet youre throwing one at me? Your comments dont seem aimed at the poll, but at me.
I don't have problems with polls and think Zombieguide's two threads are really constructive. I don't have a problem with you, I don't know you. I have a problem with your polls because of how you run them and the negative vibes they bring to the boards. It's hard to critique your polls when you say my feedback is not being negative. For example, you said:
kingofpain26 wrote:
you didnt bother to look at the recent poll that someone made about the characters not made, and because the results didnt go YOUR way, you reject them.
Or maybe I didn't bother to look at the recent poll that someone made because
Scramble wrote:
I don't know what "recent poll shows" this...
So here is some positive feedback. Make sure you know what you're saying is accurate before you say it. Because I do not want someone that misunderstands my input releasing a poll that he claims reflects my opinion.
counter feedback: make sure you bother to ask what poll, or research the poll, or even contribute to the poll, before you completely reject its findings. I don't want someone complaining about a poll I did, claiming that it doesnt relfect their opinion, when they didnt bother to voice their opinion in the first place.
it isnt animosity Im trying to spread, but simply put, If I did post a "What was great/sucked about joecon 2008" (Like I did in 2007 and 2006) would you post? would you bother to voice your opinion, saying how much fun it was to hang out with your joe friends, and point out the errors that you had? THATS where I get some of my info from. I was going to combine this with a straw poll on some of the strong points (Dinner vs Buffet, price point vs Quality, Exclusives vs Mass market) Ive already said in an earlier post that you dont want to be a part of this,.. so whats the point of continued negativity? 'Cause actually, I would greatly want you to be a part of this, the ones who rage against the machine are the ones I want to try to fix it.
...so do you have any ideas to do it better?
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then you're exactly right. i don't understand the answer...
i really don't have any criticism, constructive or negative, because i truly don't see the value in this.
i'll just make like a BadAsh pose, and butt out now.
seriously, if this is the answer to my question of 'why do this'....
kingofpain26 wrote:
...if you have to ask the question, then you wont understand the answer.
then you're exactly right. i don't understand the answer...
i really don't have any criticism, constructive or negative, because i truly don't see the value in this.
i'll just make like a BadAsh pose, and butt out now.
ok,.. heres my point: try explaining to other adults why you're a grown man who still plays with toys,.. and you'll see my point in futility in explaining your motivations in something...
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